It is with profound sadness that we share the passing of our beloved Commodore, Everette Hoard.
Commodore Everette was more than a crew member, he was the heart and soul of the Queen Mary. For over 40 years, he dedicated his life to honoring and preserving this historic ship, though his love for her began long before his first official day aboard. As he often recounted, he was a young child when his parents first brought him to see the Queen Mary, and from that moment on, he knew his heart belonged to her.
We invite you to share your messages, memories, and reflections below to celebrate his extraordinary life and offer comfort to his loved ones.
"There will no doubt be an outpouring of love and tributes for Commodore Everette Hoard in the days to come.
And believe every word of it, because when people speak highly of him, they’re not exaggerating. Everette was, without question, one of the kindest human beings this world has ever known. His love for The Queen Mary was unmatched, and I truly mean unmatched. He was the heartbeat of that ship. The ambassador she was blessed to have. The stories people will share about Everette will sound like we all knew him on some deep personal level. And that’s because we did. That’s who he was. The moment you met him, you had his undivided attention, his warmth, and his care. You became part of his circle instantly.
I have numerous holiday cards from him that I’ll always cherish. Plenty of pictures too, like the ones where I’d joke around with him. One of my favorites is of him throwing up a gangster rap sign with Will Kane. It still cracks me up every time I see it. But Everette was always a sport. The only thing I never got from him was a full recital of Hit 'Em Up by Tupac. That would’ve been the cherry on top. But even without that, we all carry enough stories and memories of him to last a lifetime, until we see him again.
Thank you, Everette, for being one of the kindest souls to ever walk this earth. We can only hope to care for the Grand Old Lady the way you did. And I’m sure wherever you are, you’re already up there, greeting everyone with that same grace and warmth that made stepping onto the Ship feel like coming home."
— Anonymous
"I am heartbroken to lose such a treasured friend, passionate colleague and joyous soul. My life has been profoundly enriched by Everette and his incredible spirit will live on in my heart, and in the many who knew and loved him so much. God’s speed, wonderful friend. Until we meet again"
— Jackie
"I remember when my brother Frank hired Everette back in the late 1970s thinking that this young 20 something year-old was the perfect person to work in our toy and hobby shop there on the Queen Mary. I remember Everette always had an answer for those technical questions that the customers would always ask about the Queen Mary, like how many portholes does a ship have or why is it shaped like a banana? Everette was one of the nicest and most gentle person that you could ever meet. He will be greatly missed."
—E. Ajello
"Everette was a kind, generous, caring soul who loved the Queen Mary as much and knew her as well as anyone; during the time I lived in L.A. and visited the ship often he was a resource, guide, sounding board, and a friendly, familiar face, always there to greet me (and whoever I brought to the ship with me) with a smile, a story, and a shared reverence for the great liner, which has never had and will never have a greater ambassador. I'm really going to miss him. Fair winds and following seas, my dear friend."
—Jay Braiman
"I remember me and my son had visited the Queen Mary one time and it was my sons first time there, we had got lost and I asked to directions. My son was very shy and he talked to my son and made him comfortable. As he was showing us where we had to go, he gave my son a little history of the Queen Mary. He was so patient with my son. So very kind. Such a nice man. I thank him so much for making me and my son feel so very welcome aboard the Queen Mary. He will be very missed. Thank you so much sir very being a very GOOD representation of the Queen Mary. Your smile will be missed."
—Petra Gonzalez
"Everette was absolutely the soul of the QM, from the moment I was hired he was a smiling face. I can't imagine going back and not hearing more of his stories, history and lore of the ship. What an incredible man."
—Eden
"I was heartbroken to read the news this morning of Commodore Everette Hoard’s passing. Please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of such an extraordinary man. I’ve had the honor of knowing Commodore Everette since 2014, and he was one of the main reasons I returned to visit the Queen Mary time and again. His wealth of knowledge, kindness, and warmth made every visit feel like something truly special. He embodied the very soul of the ship. One of my fondest memories was in 2019, on the eve of Carnival Panorama’s inaugural sailing from Long Beach. Commodore Everette graciously joined our gathering in the Verandah Grill, where he shared stories about the Queen Mary and his love for her. He spent time with each of my guests, answering questions, reminiscing, and connecting on a personal level. He even returned the next morning to see us off—a gesture that meant the world to all of us. He will be deeply missed, but I have no doubt that his spirit and legacy will continue to live on through the Queen Mary. I know the ship and her crew will continue to honor him for many years to come. With heartfelt sympathy..."
— Scott Phares
"I've worked at the Queen Mary for almost 13 years and I still vividly remember meeting Everette on my first day. He welcomed me like family, because to him everyone at the ship - employees and guests alike - was exactly that. One of my fondest memories is of a leadership outing to Catalina. On the boat ride back Everette was on the phone, seemingly having a serious conversation until I overheard the normally soft-spoken southern gentleman shout, "I said do it, Bill! Do it now!" Just then, as we passed by his beloved Queen Mary, the ship's whistle sounded for us. Everette threw both his hands in the air and cheered, as did everyone else. His enthusiasm and joy were contagious, and that was the same energy he brought to work every day. "I'm just lucky to be here," he'd say, but really we were all the lucky ones for having known him. We love you, E."
—Sara Parras
"It was with great sadness that I learned of the passing of Commodore Everette Hoard. His death is a profound loss, not only to those who knew him personally but also to the countless people whose lives he touched through his tireless dedication to preserving the memory of the RMS Queen Mary. Commodore Hoard's contributions to the legacy of the Queen Mary were significant. His passion for the ship's history and his commitment to sharing its story with the world ensured that future generations would understand the ship's significance. Beyond his public role, I will always cherish the friendship he extended over the years. He was a constant source of encouragement and a true champion of our maritime history endeavors. I had sincerely hoped to finally meet him aboard the Queen Mary during my recent visit. Commodore Hoard will be sadly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him and by the broader maritime community. His legacy, however, will undoubtedly endure, much like the grand vessel he so lovingly championed."
—Chris Frame
"I was aboard the Queen Mary in April 2024 with a good friend of mine. We had the opportunity to speak to Commodore Hoard while in the First Class Main Hall. He was very passionate about the ship and her history. He even let us have an opportunity to sit in some of the ship’s original furniture. Rest easy, Everette, your voyage may have come to an end, but your legacy will live on forever"
—Aiden
" The passing of Commodore Everette is an unfathomably profound loss for all of us. His great kindness, gregarious humor, brilliant intellect, and his ability to convey his deep passion and detailed knowledge of the Queen Mary with such compelling, articulate drama and beauty were such profound gifts to us all. His loving, genuine nature was such a rare treasure. My deepest sympathy go out to his beloved wife Cyndi and his loved ones. We love you, Everette."
—Scott MacDonald
"We'd been friends for years before he obtained that lofty title of Commodore; when he worked in one of the gift shops and was another guy interested in ships. Always was nice and soft-spoken and a great cheerleader for the "Queen" as he usually referred to the ship. I would see him so frequently at events, or just walking around the ship, that I took it for granted that he'd always be there. Apparently, an awful lot of other people shared a fondness and admiration for him as attested to in the many remembrances on this official Queen Mary website. Everette Hoard loved the ship and all of his "passengers" and friends loved him. Fair winds and following seas to you."
—Shawn Dake
"Commodore Everette Hoard was a great friend to amateur radio station W6RO aboard the Queen Mary. We operate in the Wireless Room situated on the Sports Deck just forward of the center funnel. He would occasionally bring tour groups up to the station where our volunteer crew members would describe to role of radio during the ship's years at sea, and our current role as a world-famous amateur radio station. He appeared, along with our station founder Nate Brightman K6OSC and me, in a 2014 Voice of America video featuring our station - here: https://aralb.org/club-station-w6ro/. And he was the keynote speaker at W6RO's 40th anniversary celebration aboard the ship in 2019. Commodore would often address any of us with the nickname "Sparks" - a tribute to the early spark gap transmitter operators on vessels in the Titanic's era. It was a great privilege to serve aboard the Queen Mary with him. All of the crew members, past and present, of station W6RO send our most heartfelt condolences at Commodore Hoard's passing."
—David Akins
"Oh Everotto… I miss you. Your glow, kindness, passion, and goofy nature. You are a legend my dear friend. A LEGEND."
—Jeri H.
" I was very sad to hear of Everette's passing. He was such a great advocate for all things Queen Mary. He will be missed not only by those closest to him but everyone who shared his passion and enthusiasm for the ship. My thoughts and prayers for Everette's family for their loss."
—David Ellery
"Commodore Everette, Thank you very much for your kindness and attention to detail when we visited the Queen Mary. My partner and I were enjoying ourselves very much we went to the captains area and Commodore Hoard noticed us immediately and gave us a personal explanation all about the ship and it’s history; it was delightful and exciting to have this attention. My partner and I were very thrilled and excited when Commodore Hoard spoke about the ship and many of the stories about the ship. He made us feel like we were special tourist and I’ll always have wonderful memories of visiting the Queen Mary because of Commodore Hoard. REST IN PEACE, you were loved."
—J. Hernandez
"R.I.P Everette R. Hoard The team at QMI is saddened by the passing of Everette Hoard. Over the years, he held positions in the ships toy and hobby shop, the shell shop, the wedding chapel (officiating hundreds of weddings), tour department, the archives, created historical exhibits and was an international representative for the Queen Mary. He dedicated countless hours to researching the Queen Mary and talking to people who have worked on the ship or had stories to share about the ship. His true passion was talking to passengers, answering their questions about the ship. In 2009, he wrote a story titled “Theodore and the Queen” in memory of Captain John Treasure Jones, whom he considered a significant influence. A key trait of the Queen Mary’s captain is being considerate and recognizing each passenger’s unique needs. Everette embodied this quality. His appreciation and passion for the two sister ships was obvious and he is now a sacred part of their history, as they would want him to be! Everette invested decades of Service, Loyalty, Appreciation, Patience and Love to the ship. He was the epitome of a true Maritime Historian. Our condolences to his wife and we thank Everette for his years of service to the RMS Queen Mary and to the City of Long Beach."
—QMI
"It was a pleasure to meet you in Long Beach aboard our favorite ship & to welcome you to our home in Southampton several times & also a very huge welcome from the members of RMS Queen Mary Association here in Southampton. Your knowledge & love of the Queen Mary was first class, you will be missed by people both sides of the pond, farewell to a great friend."
—Dave/Pat Smith, Sec RMS Queen Mary Association
"I am deeply saddened to have heard of the death of Commodore Everette Hoard I know he will be greatly missed and that the ship namesake Her Majesty Queen Mary of Tech, grandmother to the late Queen would of loved you and would of been proud that you devoted your heart and time to the Queen Mary. As King George V said at the launching of the RMS Queen Mary, “As a sailor I have deep pleasure in coming here today to watch the launching by the Queen of this great and beautiful ship, the happy task of sending on her way,the stately a ship now in being,during those years when work upon her was suspended we grieved for what that suspension meant to thousands of our people, we rejoiced that with the help of my government it has been possible to lift that cloud and to complete this ship, it has been the nations will that she should be completed and today we can send her forth, no longer a number on the books but the ship with a name in the world alive with beauty, energy, and strength.” George RI Commodore Hoard you are engraved in the Queen Mary’s history and you will forever be missed. Now go forth into the arms of your Creator Jesus Christ. He has called you home to be with Him. As King Charles lll in his first speech as King after the death of Queen Elizabeth ll, May flights of Angels sing thee to thy rest."
—Morgan Underwood
"I got to spend an afternoon on a tour with the Commodore, he was so kind and knowledgeable, he shared that he’d always had a love for ships from a young age and had so much respect for the Queen Mary. I’m so happy to have met him and love that he got to spend his days on a ship he loved talking about history and things he loved."
—Deanne Martinez
"Heartbroken to hear of Commodore Hoard's passing. He was a kind, gentle soul whose passion for the Queen Mary was truly unmatched. We'll never forget the personal tour he gave us the day I proposed to my wife aboard the ship. He made a special moment even more unforgettable. Rest easy, Commodore. You were one of a kind."
—Matt Van Hoesen
"Commodore Hoard’s dedication and many contributions to The Queen Mary will never be forgotten! His professionalism and knowledge made my visits so memorable! I had the honor of speaking to him on several visits! He will truly be missed!"
—Miriam Krawchuk
"Commodore, the Queen Mary will not be the same without you. You brought the ship to life for every guest who had the great fortune of meeting you. Thank you for everything you did. You will be very missed."
—Wileen Leu
"We are saddened to hear of the Commodore’s death. He is an icon. Our wedding reception and honeymoon night was on the Queen Mary, on which John’s mother traveled from England to America many times. We spent a couple of anniversaries on board, and one evening were treated to Commodore Everette telling us stories over a glass of champagne in one of the lounges. A true Queen Mary treat and a wonderful memory of a kind man."
—Mary Lynne and John Knighten
"Commodore Everette was always smiling and full of energy when I came to the queen mary. Me and my husband were lucky to get married by the Commodore and he made our wedding amazing. I was nervous, but he made use laugh and more comfortable. He will be very missed."
—Kimberly Perez
"Everette is my cousin and he always wanted to work on the Queen Mary. The good lord in heaven was gracious enough to allow him to live out his dream. He will be missed and may he rest in peace."
—Keith Moore
"Upon meeting, the Commodore and I bonded almost immediately. We were of a similar age, shared a love of the sea - and both had lost our hearts to the Queen Mary. Fair winds and following seas, Everette, as we struggle to fill the void your loss will leave in the lives of all who were touched by your kindness and knowledge."
—Stan Euklund
"Commodore Everette was a very special human and brought so much light to a dark world, my time knowing him when working on the Queen Mary will always be a cherished moment in my Life. May he forever be remembered for the treasure he was and may he rest in peace."
—Ross Keith
" In the most honest manner I never personally met Commodore Hoard, but I have watched him as he represented a subject I have an endearing interest in, the Queen Mary. What a wonderful and fulfilling life that your personal interests and professional life can be one and the same and with such honest love for his work. Since I can only relate my experiences from afar, I would ask that that Captain Treasure Jones speak for me. About 1:24 into the video he talks about his love of the ship, mortality and what it all means so well. https://youtu.be/IyCcTMVFkJw?si=Rn8vLBjYPenzcJtf Fair Winds and Following Seas"
—Mike Hall
"May Commodore Hoard Rest in Peace. His service and kindness will never be forgotten."
—Kristin Warren
"Commodore Hoard had the most welcoming smile! I was honored to have spoken to him on several visits to The Queen Mary! His knowledge of the ship and dedication will leave an immense footprint l! His legacy will shine forever!"
—Miriam Krawchuk
"Two years ago we had the pleasure of attending Sunday brunch as soon as it re-opened. It was my first time ever attending Queen Mary’s Sunday brunch and we were seated at the Commodore’s table. Commodore Everette was so nice to us. He so kindly shared stories about hisself and the ship. He made that experience memorable and lasting. My condolences to his family on and off the ship."
—Janice Conway
" May he rest in peace he was a nice person to work with at the queen mary. He was a nice person to be around him with his smile and saying how is ur day going."
—Maria Rincon
" I met Commodore in April. He was very eager to talk about the history of the ship both paranormal and non paranormal wise. His eyes lit up when he spoke about the ship and you could tell he cared. He will be missed! My condolences to all who knew and loved him."
—Heather Gulley
" Commodore Everette was a mainstay on the QM. My most recent exchange with him was in the lounge. Always warm, inviting and full of lore about the Ship and its history. His absence will be felt deeply. Rest in peace sir!"
—Shilo Mcgrew
"He watched over the Queen Mary with love, dedication, and respect. Although permanently moored during his service to the great ship, he will go down in history with the Queen Mary as one of her greatest commanders."
—Todd Burks
" Everette I never gave it a thought that you would leave us. To me you were tha same as the Queen Mary, always sitting there in the harbor .from my boat in Shoreline marina everyday I would see and hear the ship toot its horn at 10, 12, & 6 o'clock and often think of the commodore. It was back in 2005 when I first met him and as the years passed on , I watched him grow and morph into the commodores position. As a former navy man , I have to say he wore that uniform proudly. God up in heaven , make room for your new assistant, because he’s steering his way up there."
—George White
"The Queen Mary has gone through incredible hardships. Yet, through it all, Commodore Everette Hoard stayed there, with a profound love for her, and undoubtedly, He had a crucial role in her restoration by Long Beach, and her eventual reopening. Without Hoard, and the many, incredible staff of the Queen Mary, I probably wouldn’t have been able to experience her myself. So thank you, Commodore Hoard. I may have never met you, but your impact will undoubtedly help the world know the golden age of travel for years to come."
—Jonathan Yeh
"I am so sorry for your loss. He was a very nice man. I only met him once but it was wonderful. May he rest in peace."
—Stephanie Lee
"For my son’s 8th birthday Commodore Everette went above and beyond. He and the staff kindly sent a video message to him welcoming him to the ship for the first time."
—Kim Bontje
"I had the great privilege of meeting Honorary Commodore Everette Hoard through my daughter, Nicole Strickland. Her first Queen Mary book, "The Haunted Queen of the Seas: The Living Legend of the RMS Queen Mary," was read and approved by Everette to be sold aboard when he worked in the gift store, Stacks. Everette loved how Nicole wrote through the pureness and love she has for the Queen Mary, something he dearly felt. I knew then how deeply his love is for the Queen Mary. He also wrote a beautiful foreword to Nicole's third book, "RMS Queen Mary: Voices from Her Voyages." Each time I visited the ship, it was rewarding to witness Everette's authenticity, a rare gift in today's world. Dear Everette, may you rejoice in all the love shared from so many, especially the RMS Queen Mary, as she honors and preserves your life within her heart and soul. With love."
—Norma Strickland
"We are sad to hear of Everett's passing. He was such a nice man and we always had a great chat when we visited the Queen Mary. Our condolences to his family and friends."
—Brian & Bridgett Butler
"Commodore Hoard was always there to greet us when our club (Shoreline Yacht Club LB) would hold it's annual Commodore's Ball in the Grand Salon; A very charming man who was truly the face of the Queen Mary; We will all miss him"
—Bruce Davis- Staff Commodore, Shoreline Yacht Club
"On a visit to my sister in April 2016 we had a wonderful day on the Queen Mary. Commodore Hoard went out of his way to welcome us on board and show us round his love for the ship was obvious he was so welcoming and knowledgeable. As I'm from clydebank where the Queen Mary was built it was extra special but meeting Commodore Hoard was also a special day one always remembered ,my condolences to his family ,crew and friends."
—Jane Greene
"A life beautifully lived. Go well, sir. Go well!"
—Janet Alvarez
"My boyfriend and I have loved the Queen Mary since we were children - it’s always held a special place in our hearts and was one of the things that brought us together when we met as adults. During the pandemic, when the ship was closed, we were heartbroken. It had become our favorite date spot, a place of comfort and connection. When the Queen Mary finally reopened, we were overjoyed to walk her decks again. That day, we were warmly greeted by a familiar and welcoming face - Commodore Everette Hoard. While we had seen him before, this was the first time we had the chance to speak with him, and it’s a memory we will cherish forever. He was so gracious, kind, and full of heart. My boyfriend, a Navy veteran and ship enthusiast, instantly bonded with the Commodore over their shared love of maritime history. They swapped stories, showed pictures, and laughed together. The Commodore didn’t just speak to us - he truly connected with us. He made us feel like we belonged there, fellow lovers of history and the ship. He even agreed to take a photo with us - something we were so excited and honored to have. That single encounter left a lasting impression. He was everything a steward of the Queen Mary should be: passionate, knowledgeable, warm, and humble. There is a deep void in the Queen Mary community with his passing. He will be sorely missed by all who had the pleasure of meeting him. Thank you, Commodore Hoard, for sharing your light with us."
—Lindsay Reilly
"I traveled to Queen Mary for a work trip and I will forever remember and hold dearly in my memory the opportunity I had to get a personal tour by Commodore. He was so passionate about the ship and took great pride in sharing the stories and bringing the history to life. He will certainly be missed but will always be remembered."
—Roger Littlepage
" A dear friend for many years."
—Jeffrey Towns
" May you rest in peace and your family be filled with comfort know you love a long memorable life!"
—Shae Estrada
"My shipmate for years. Always quick with a smile, and a positive word. Always the first face I looked for when returning to the ship. His good cheer and warm welcome will be missed, but his spirit will forever remain."
—John Barkhurst
"I had met Everette in the 1990's, when he worked aboard the ship in a souvenir store called, "The Magic Shell Castle" on Prom Deck. Whenever I had the chance, I would stop by, say hello, and would often talk of our beloved Queen and the thousands of stories he knew, which often he was a part of himself. If there was something I was unfamiliar with regarding The Mary, or frankly any other ship, you could bet that Everette would know! The attached photo was taken on February 25th, which happened to be a good day for Everette. Although still weak, he had the energy to come aboard in full uniform and spend time visiting with guests. This would be our last time together. Our loss of Everette Hoard leaves me with no words to say, and a painful wound in my heart. I am not much into poetry, but there was a poem I had heard being read long ago, and was finally able to find it and will share it with you all... -No more a watch to stand, Old Sailor. For you are drifting on an ebbing tide. Eight Bells has rung. Last dogwatch done. Now a new berth awaits you on the other side. Your ship is anchored in God's Harbour. And your ship mates, now of equal rank. Are mustered on the deck to greet. And Pipe as you ascend the Plank. Her Boilers with full head of steam. Cargo stowed and alley stored. Just waiting to get underway. When the last Hand comes aboard. Look sharp! That Hand is you, Old Sailor. And you'll be sailing out on Heavenly Seas. May the wind be ever at your back. Fair weather, and God Speed! -When The Last Hand Comes Aboard, by Richard John Scarr Until we enjoy High Tea together in the Grand Salon in Heaven..."
—Stephen Ablonczy
"Everette put the SHIP in friendship. He treated everyone he met like they were a part of the Queen Mary family. His knowledge of the Queen was second to none. I had the pleasure to work with him for a little over two years and he was an absolute JOY to work with. He gave an incredible, fact-filled and enjoyable tour of the ship...and though I have been gone from the organization for over a decade, I am known for my tours at my new property. He, without a doubt, rubbed off on me and inspired that. RIP."
—Thomas LaRocca
"Rest in peace old friend"
—Everett Echavez
" I used to come to stay on the Queen Mary annually. I'd take a tour and attend the Sunday brunch. I saw Commodore Everette many times, with my wife, my mother, my mother and father in law and friends. The ship was closed for several years and I signed up for a tour when it was about to reopen. I was happy to see Everette leading the tour. He recognized me after all that time and welcomed me back. A tribute to his close ties to the ship. May he rest in Peace!"
—Gregg Oelker
" I can't even remember first meeting Everette. Its like he was always in my life as I worked in the Smokestack Shop from 1980 to 1985. He was family to me and my kids who were going through some tough times. His family became my sons family. His mom and dad were as southern gracious as could be. They raised him well. We did some crazy things together and he helped me far more than words can say. His humor and up beat got me laughing when i was crying. His hugs will never be forgotten. We lost a good soul too soon but I can close my eyes and see his smile as he reunites with his mom and dad. God bless Cyndi for bringing so much love and happiness in his life."
—Roseanne Preto
"May he rest in peace. I remember him always speaking delightfully of the Queen Mary History on a lot of Paranormal events & shows. God be with him 🙏🏻🕊️💐"
—Elizabeth Sanchez Jr
" I don’t have a specific memory, but every day at work with the Commodore made my experience special. I was pregnant during my time there, and I’m so grateful that he got to meet my son. Now 12 years old, my son has developed a love for ocean liners from the early 20th century. Even though he was only 3 at the time, his small conversations with the Commodore left a lasting impression on him."
—Caitlin Collins
" I was staying aboard the Queen Mary in 2015, travelling across from the UK. I met Commodore Everette as I was exploring the ship. We got talking and he then took me to see some of the rooms on the ship that were closed that day. His love for the ship was very clear and we both talked about our shared interest in the ship. He was very kind showing me around, and very generous with his time. My sympathies and thoughts go out to his family and friends. The Queen Mary has lost a true ambassador for the ship and for Long Beach. Rest in peace."
—Richard Coltman
"I never had the honor of meeting him, but I did see him around the Queen Mary a few times. I could tell that he had a lot of love and respect for the ship. I wish I could have met him. May you experience calm seas and a peaceful rest, Commodore."
—Cody Harvey
"Our beloved Honorary Commodore Everette Hoard mirrored all the wonderful traits of the Queen Mary he so dear loved - kindness, selflessness, devotion, and goodwill to all.His legacy will forever be a part of the RMS Queen Mary's tapestry and will live on in our hearts and our memories. I am blessed to have known Everette for 20 years. I will cherish the times we've spent aboard and boy will I miss that smile of his! Words cannot describe how much I admire him for his loyalty to and love for the greatest ocean liner of all time. We honor you, Everette. We remember the beautiful life you lived and your heart so deeply loved. The RMS Queen Mary has eternally wrapped her loving arms around you. Fair winds and following seas, my dear friend."
— Nicole Strickland
"Around forty years ago, Everette, driven by his passion for the Queen Mary and the ocean liners, packed his bags and made the trip to Southampton to visit my grandfather, Captain John Treasure Jones (then retired) and my grandmother, Bel. That visit planted the seed which grew into a heartfelt, enduring and true friendship between two great men who shared a mutual love. I was 18 years old when my grandparent sadly passed over, but Everette’s amazing recollections of his conversations and shared time with them both gave me the greatest blessing I could ever have asked for – in those moments of his shared stories, he brought them back to life. While Everette shared our grief when we lost both John and Bel within ten days of each other in 1993, the friendship and genuine affection that had been present with my grandparents blossomed and endured with my mother Susan and my late father, Richard. When my father worked on John’s memoires and then on his own book to commemorate the Queen Mary’s final voyage, I know that Everette was an amazing support to Dad and I always smiled when I overheard Dad chatting away to Everette on the phone when I would go and visit. There was always a lot of laughter, I remember, on those calls. Whenever Everette would be over in Southampton having come across on one of his lecture tours, they would make sure that they could all meet up and I know that it gave my parents a huge amount of pleasure to share the beauty of the New Forest and their life there with their dear friend."
— Gillie Tennant
"I am so very saddened to hear this. He was such an amazing man. We were fortunate enough to join him at the Captain's table for brunch last year for Mother's Day. He regaled us with stories from his childhood of reading everything he could about the Queen Mary and BEGGING his parents to take him to California so he could see her in person. That dream eventually came true only to be followed by the dream of becoming the Commodore of the grand lady herself. Fair winds and following seas Commodore Everette. You were greatly loved and will be greatly missed. Thank you for sharing the MAGIC with us all. "
— Gail
"I first met a young, tall, skinny kid who had recently started work in the model and toy shop onboard 40 some years ago. Hi, I’m Everette! A new Queen Mary friendship began. During those many years I’d lose touch as he was working here or there on the ship or in “London Towne”. We would run into each other and resume right where we left off. During the last many years we spent lots of time talking RMS Queen Mary and Cunard. He did a fantastic job in organizing and serving as MC of the 75th Anniversary events while supervising the Ship stores, most not only Stacks. As a part of the events he had many items from wine glasses to special clothing items made which promptly sold out. During this time Stacks had books for sale. He managed to acquire antiquarian books on the ship including many of the past Captain’s autobiographies. His subsequent promotion to Commodore was pure brilliance. His demeanor make everyone feel special. He deported himself with the greatest dignity at many public event in which he represented the ship. In my retirement, I was able to spend more time on the ship and with E. I became an ordained clergyman and was able to share that side of my life with him in a couple of his times in need. But always with that great ship as our backdrop! We traded many items and I gave him some and he gave me some. One of his Uniform Coats was mine and he always would mention how grateful he was. Hats, patches, uniform items as well as books articles and so much more. He has left enormous shoes to fill, figuratively and literally! He was a great friend and I shall always cherish the hours we spent together!"
—James Brandmueller
"We are so sad to hearing of the passing of the gentle Commodore Hoard. He married us on the Queen Mary in May 2023, the first full wedding at the Queen since the pandemic. He was so generous with his time and knowledge. He was reverent regarding the Queen - it was his to take care of and he did superbly. He was always smiling and had the most gentle manner about him. We wanted things a bit non-traditional at our wedding ceremony and he fully accommodated our wishes and worked with us in its planning. He provided a private guided tour of some of the magnificent Salons in the QM on the day of the wedding. He told the history of the QM to our guests prior to our entrance (we listened in) - a story he had probably told on hundreds of other occasions, but by his enthusiasm it felt as if he was telling it for the first time. A gentler, more kinder man you would never meet. We were fortunate to continue our friendship with him in subsequent visits. And no one wore a ship's uniform better than he did. Goodbye, dear friend. You will never be forgotten."
—Robert and Jenny Levinson
"Commodore Everette eputome the Queen Mary. The love he has for the queen was unmatch. He was the sweetest, and kindest soul I've ever met. He taught me the history of the Queen Mary. Whenever, I see him walking around the ship, I would ask how he was doing? He would always respond with, "Steady as she goes". Commodore Everette will truly be missed by many who have been given the privilege to get to know him.. We love you dearly. Thank you for all the amazing memories from attending QM charity events to attending weddings. Will definitely miss you walking around the ship, but I know your spirit will be lingering around. Rest in in Paradise my fellow Leo friend"
—MaryJane Glancy
" Commodore Everette Hoard truly made our stay on board a wonderful and memorable experience in 2023. A real gentleman. I cannot say enough about this kind man."
—Barry and Elizabeth Gregg
"He was such a good and sweet man. Rest easy Commodore."
—Jessica
"My dear Commodore, as you begin your last great crossing to join the legendary Captains of the Queen Mary, I wish simply to say thank you. Thank you for all your love and dedication to our beloved Queen Mary, too her visitors and her crew. Your friendship is truly something I will cherish always. Stepping onboard just won't be the same without you. I was so honoured to share your last visit to your second home, Southampton, England. Where together we explored all that was left in city linked to the Queen Mary including her gang way. I remember standing in front of Captains Jones grave, you turned to me and said “I miss the captain so very much” I hope now you are with him once again reminiscing about all the adventures for which you and him both loved. Like him you will remain forever intertwined to the Queen Marys history. You have been and will remain an inspiration to us all. Thank you my dear friend, god bless you. May flights of angles sing thee to thy rest."
—Matthew Bambury
"Commodore Hoard was a person of which words cannot describe. I am honoured to have known him, and to have called a friend. Perhaps my favourite memory of him was the day he let me sign the passenger guest book in the Captain’s day room. Another favourite memory was certainly also when he helped me display Henry Hall’s photo (the composer of the Queen Mary’s signature tune) in the music room. I will forever cherish the moments I had with him, and the many wonderful and interesting conversations we had. He always brought joy into my life, along with many other good friends. Everette was, and still is one of my heroes. I will forever remember and miss you. Until we’ll meet again, some sunny day."
—Shilo Svoboda
"Everette and I worked together on The Queen Mary from 2013 to 2014. We became fast friends and he taught me so much history about The Queen Mary. We stayed in touch after I left my position, and when I was engaged, I asked Everette if he was willing to be the officiant for my wedding. He did not hesitate, and said I was family and he would do anything for family. That really sums up the kind of person he was. May his legacy live on forever, and may all who were touched by Everett be comforted in the beautiful memories that they shared together."
—Emily Andrus
"Dear Commodore, how delighted I was when you talked with me about your beloved RMS Queen Mary. You were so knowledgeable, so willing to share your fascinating stories about her, you brought her to life for me. I was so pleased to be brought into your circle of "Queen Mary friends" and thrilled beyond measure when you were one of my guests of honor at the Queen Mary's Secret Spice Cafe Dinner and Tour. Despite being a practical man, you never looked askance at anyone who told a tale about being visited by a spirit while aboard the ship; in fact, you told a tale or two yourself. I know for sure that you are there in spirit now too, and can see all the wonderful tributes left for you, the wreaths and flowers displayed in your memory in the Commodore's Office aboard the Queen. You made a powerful impact, sir, you answered every historical question I had, and then some, sparking my imagination, as well as that of thousands more ship lovers who met you aboard. You left us too soon, Commodore Hoard, and will be very, very missed."
—Patricia V. Davis
"Everette, you were such an influence and inspiration to so many, especially with how much passion you had for the ship. You were the link and voice of the memories of Commodore Marr, Captain Treasure Jones, and the other mariners, crew, and beautiful passengers who had memories in the Mary’s 90-year history and 32-year career at sea. Thank you for devoting so much of your life to being the voice and ambassador to this great and beautiful ship and in telling her story. I am forever grateful to have known you. Though our hearts break that you have taken the voyage to heaven, there’s a sense of comfort knowing that you have reunited with Commodore Marr and John Treasure Jones aboard the Queen Elizabeth. Your spirit will also always be a part of the Queen Mary, a ship that you had such a wonderful love for. Thank you for always being an inspiration and glowing light of influence to me and so many others."
—Milad Shafieezad
"We all will miss you. Thank you for everything. You will forever remain in our hearts"
—Eric
"The Grand Old Queen has lost her Commodore. For me Everett was the face of Queen Mary. He held her to his heart. His love passion and pride are immeasurable. I had the great pleasure to meet this most wonderful Gentleman on the Final Crossing of QE2 in October 2008. His, at the time last words before disembarkation were "See you on The Mary ...soon " l joked with him when we did meet that it felt like an order. It was he said ! His words came true the following year when I stepped aboard and entered into the Queen Mary Magic. Over the many years I have been incredibly lucky to retrace those steps and enjoy many beautiful nights onboard this most lovely of ships. Everette was for many years the Host of the famous Christmas or Sunday brunch. In the old fashioned manner he would greet you as a friend at the entrance . For the next few hours as they say he would "work the room " engaging with every diner answering questions or simply being part of the photo. He left you in no doubt of his pride in The Queen Mary. My last visit only in December for yet another Christmas day brunch. There was no Everette, it was still a grand affair, but it lacked his presence. A number of years ago l was staying onboard Queen Mary for several nights over New Year. Throughout the evening he would pop up in different places. And while he wasn't able to partake of any drinks as he was onduty. I had taken a very special bottle of his favourite bubbles for him to enjoy sometime later. I told him quietly this ship has provided me with many wonderful memories & it was time to return the gesture. To his crew l extend my condolences. When the whistle of Queen Mary sounds in the future, and if we detect a note that isn't right, then allow us to believe Queen Mary is grieving. Bon Voyage on your last great journey"
—Myles Devin
"I had the pleasure of touring the historic Queen Mary on work trip; our group was led by the legendary Commodore Everette! What a charming and captivating individual. He felt like the spirit and embodiment of the ship herself. All who encountered him are better for it. Much love to all those closest to him - may his warmth linger and radiate around you always."
—Morgan Clark
"Always our Mr. Queen Mary. We will miss you Everette. Fair winds and following seas. Leo has promised to honour your passion and become an officer on the seas. Thank you for always being so kind and supportive of him."
—Alexandra Gradwell-Spencer
"I was lucky enough to get a private tour with the commodore about 10 years ago. He had such a beautiful passion for the Queen Mary and I’m so glad we got to hear it from him."
—Jennifer Turner
" Everette had a passion for life, cats, his beloved wife, and, of course his beloved Queen. I met Everette aboard the Queen Mary back in 2012 when I had my engagement gala aboard. We remained friends since. His knowledge of the ship absolutely mesmerized me because I loved the ship also. Still do. He shared so many stories and tales and history about the Queen……how could one not feel that same passion as he spoke about his beloved ship? Thank you Everette for your friendship and your love of such a beautiful piece of history, I will miss you. God bless you my dear friend."
—Melanie Johnson
"I met Everette while he was working behind the counter at the onboard store called Stacks back in 2007. I was working for the current Cunard Line as Corporate Events Planner and we were looking for a location to hold our annual corporate sales meeting. We did choose Queen Mary and Everette became our guide and historian. We became very close friends for a number of years and I came down to the ship regularly, stayed overnight, visited with Everette and enjoyed good meals and walks around the ship together. He was a kindhearted and generous man and anyone who met him was easily charmed by his wonderful personality. He will be missed and we do pray that his soul will rest in peace."
—Robert Lohr
"Everette was a kind, kindred spirit. As someone who loves ships almost as much as he did, he would come over to our table at brunch and we would passionately discuss ships and our love for them. He always had time for us, despite circulating from table to table. After brunch, we would seek him out and spend even more time sharing our love of the Queen Mary and Queen Elizabeth. We have been attending brunch for 27 years and Everette has been an essential part of the experience. He is loved and will be greatly missed by us. "
—JC Garces
"This hits home! We visited the Queen Mary often and kids absolutely love their time listening to stories being told by the heart of the ship! Finding Commodore was always the first thing we did after checking in to our room. He will be deeply missed but know he will always be a presence walking the ship"
—Shelly Hobbs
"My dear, dear E, saying you will be missed is such an understatement. You will forever be in my heart and a part of The Mary’s heart and soul forever. I’ll always remember being teary every time you talked about Mary, all the wonderful Clan Mary dinners at Sir Winston’s, the many, many years of friendship that I cherish so dearly. I am heartbroken to lose such an amazing and special friend. My very deepest sympathy to wonderful wife, Cyndi, and your kitties. Love you now and always."
—Betsy
" His knowledgeable anchoring presence always brought joy and cheerfulness to all Queen Mary events. He will surely be missed."
—Debbie Balster
"My wife and I had the privilege of traveling to the Queen Mary with war bride June Allen in July of 2023. Although we had met him in our home town of Anderson Indiana, to experience him in his element aboard ship was an experience of a lifetime. His love and knowledge of that beautiful vessel was both both amazing and extraordinary! His spirit will live forever aboard the Queen Mary and in the hearts of those like us who had the chance to know him and love him. Our heartfelt condolences to Cyndi and those blessed with his friendship!"
—David Hannaford
" Fair winds and following seas shipmate."
—Allen Oakley
"Having heard so much about Commodore Hoard through the years, it was my distinct pleasure to finally get to meet him in 2017. My husband and I chose to spend Thanksgiving Week at the Queen Mary Hotel (it was a fabulous week, by the way!!), and wanted to enjoy Brunch before returning home. That’s where we met, and he was kind enough to have a picture taken with me before we settled down to dine. I’ll always treasure that moment and that memory, and am only sorry that we never had the opportunity to cross paths again. Clear skies and clam seas, Commodore,…and thank you."
—Michelle Pellay-Walker
"Beautiful loving soul. Talking to him was like having a conversation with the Queen Mary herself. Big hug to you Commodore Everette."
—Mandy Ruiz
"Commodore Everette meant so much to me and everyone who knew him! He had such a warm beautiful spirit, that would light up a room! He had a way of making you feel like the most important person. His heart mirrored that of the beautiful ship he so faithfully stewarded for so many years. Being onboard will not feel the same without seeing him. I’m so honored to have had him as my mentor, as a tour guide! I sure hope we can all continue & honor his legacy by taking care of his beautiful Queen Mary for many many years to come! “Three cheers for our beloved Commodore! …hip-hip, …hip-hip, …hip-hip, HORAY!!” …Until we meet again sir, …steady as she goes!."
—Craig Myers
"We have spent many nights onboard The Queen Mary and met Commodore a couple of times. Each time he was just as pleasant as the last. He loved answering the questions we and our grandchildren had. I’m sure he made everyone’s day brighter."
—E. Neu
" The Commodore was always one of my favorite parts about visiting the Queen Mary. He greeted my wife and I with such a genuine smile every time at the Sunday brunches and especially after our wedding. I could always enjoy talking about the Queen Mary with him, and he was one of the few people I knew that had such a shared interest in her. He will be greatly missed."
—James Bumenapp
"Every visit was a memorable one because walking in I knew I would find Commodore Everette first thing. I miss his stories about his cats and looking at his tie collection. Thank you Commodore Everette for keeping the Queen alive and well in spirit. You will be greatly missed. Today I’m aboard the ship and it’s such a sad feeling but I know you’re looking down on us. Much love "
—Martina Svoboda
"When I first met Everette, it was in the gift shop. With a twinkle in his eye and a playful grin, he said, "There's something about Mary!" That moment stuck with me—his warmth and charm were unmistakable from the start. Over the years I worked aboard the ship in sales, Everette and I became friends. Clients lit up whenever he joined us on site visits; his presence had a way of putting everyone at ease. More often than not, we sealed the deal—thanks in no small part to his genuine charisma and love for the Queen Mary. Everette's devotion—to people and to the ship—was boundless. He was the embodiment of grace and kindness, a true gentleman in every sense. I consider myself incredibly fortunate to have worked alongside him. It breaks my heart to know he’s no longer with us. And yet, I can almost see him now—watching over his beloved Cyndi and the Queen Mary, that same twinkle still in his eye. Everette taught us, simply by being himself, how to love others deeply and well. What a gift it was to know him."
—Barbara Swaiman
"Such an amazing man, I had the privilege of working alongside him at The Queen Mary. In 2021 Commodore Everett traveled down to San Diego and married my husband and I in my sister‘s backyard, He promised me before the pandemic hit that he would do us the honor, and an honor it was. I remember my first Real interaction with him, it was New Year’s Eve 2016, it was 10 minutes before midnight I came across Everett, standing on a ladder and the queen salon with panic on his face, I asked him how may I help you? He said he could not reach the string that will let down the balloons and he did not want to ruin the evening, I rushed to the kitchen and found a larger ladder, he was afraid, but got to the very top and I held his leg so he would not fall. The balloon drop went off without a hitch, he told me I saved the New Year’s Eve celebration. We often laughed about our first encounter, but that would not be our last . you are forever missed And you forever have a place in my heart. Steady as she goes my friend."
—Jennifer Ferraez
"He was a good hand and a great ambassador for the RMS Queen Mary. He knew a tremendous amount of information about the liner which he willingly shared with everyone he spoke to. In doing so, he perpetuated the legacy of this great liner and made an important contribution to maritime history."
—President - RMS Queen Mary Association
"Commodore Everett Hoard was a great man. I have many good memories with Everett. Everett became a friend over the years and we always looked forward to seeing him. He will be very missed by all of us but I have a feeling he will always be around on the beautiful ship, The Queen Mary. R.I.P Commodore Everett Hoard"
—Goob McConnell
"Thank You Commodore Everette for all your Smiles and Wonderful Greetings you shared to all who stepped aboard the RMS Queen Mary, Thank You for being a friend"
—Jaime Junior
"Everette took me on a tour of the ship. I remember him taking me into the pool and getting to see it. He then had me sign the guest book in the captains quarters. I will forever remember him for being kind and so generous with me. For my 30th birthday he saw me at brunch and looked at my lapel and saw a Queen Mary pin. He disappeared and came back and handed me a genuine pin from the 30’s. I still have that pin and every time I wear it I will think of him. Fair winds and following seas my friend until we meet again somewhere at sea. You will forever be part of the legacy and history of this ship. Thank you for the memories"
—Michael Richmond
"Received some very sad news today. Commodore Everette passed away. He was loved by many people and a sweet soul. He always had a smile on his face. During the Titanic Exhibition on The Queen Mary, he would take time out to sit with all of us and chat. He gave us a special tour that was not offered to the public. His smile would light up every room. RIP my friend. You will be missed. "
—Kelli
"We have had so many encounters with Commodore Everett over the years. He was so interested in hearing my history with the Queen Mary since I was a child winning my first dance trophy on her in 1972. We would reminise about all of years, events, and historic events that we shared on her. He said, "There's something about Mary, that keeps calling us all to her." We sought him out every time we visited. He was such a wonderful gentleman, so tender hearted, and knowledgeable. Our hearts are broken, but know he is watching over all of us who treasure our great Queen Mary like he did. We will miss him so much but his spirit will always be here at the Queen Mary forevermore. Rest in peace dear Commodore Hoard."
—Robin & Keith Beymer
"My memory of my 68th birthday with him. Nice enough to stop for a picture 2015"
—Margaret Orwoll
"Great memory of a VIP tea time tour. 2024 and got to enjoy a passionate tour from COMMODORE Everette Hoard. He made one feel like we're all friends. A man passionate about his position sharing stories of the lovely QM. I also have fond memories just weeks prior at another event. COMMODORE Everette made my family feel like his own guest. He was very kind to my brother in-law. Giving history to all who listened. I remember many other events where the COMMODORE Everette past by in the hallways. (always with a warm smile). Dear, COMMODORE EVERETTE you may not be here with us i the flesh, but always in our hearts. I will always feel your kindness and warm smile as I continue to visit the QM. May you Everette R.I.P"
—Rita Ireland
"My dearest friend…. I will never forget the smiles, the laughs. The caddy humor and the historical discussions about life, love and ships. Everette, you were the electric spark in an otherwise often dimmed universe. Your personality and your passion sent waves of energy across the Queen Mary, and all those of us whom were lucky enough to truly “know” you…. I will always cherish our endless conversations, and the final time we saw one another in person. I see you…. And I always will. Love you forever my dearest friend. See you on the other side. We’ll take it from here."
—Barrie Getz
"Working the front desk as manager aboard the legendary Queen Mary, I had the privilege of meeting many unforgettable people—but none left a mark quite like Commodore Everette. I’ll never forget the day I handed him the keys to room B340. What I thought was a routine moment quickly turned into one of the most memorable experiences of my time there. With a gentle smile and that signature spark in his eye, he offered me a private tour of the ship’s most haunted and storied room. As we stepped inside, I felt the history come alive—not just through the room itself, but through the way he spoke about it. His wealth of knowledge and passion for the Queen Mary far exceeded anything I expected. What he shared with me that day didn’t just fuel my excitement for working there—it lit a fire of pride, respect, and curiosity that I carried into every shift. Every time a guest checked into B340, I made sure to pass along a piece of that magic, that mystery, that reverence—because of him. Commodore Everette was more than a historian. He was a storyteller, a steward of legacy, and a beacon of light on that great ship. His presence reminded us all why the Queen Mary is more than just a vessel—she’s a living story. May you rest peacefully, my dear friend. The ship feels different without you, but your spirit will always sail through its halls"
—James Gonzales
"Last year, on June 1, 2024, with the help of wedding coordinator Lea M., we were able to hold a vow renewal with my husband, Charlie. He had terminal cancer and sadly passed 6 months later on December 12, 2024. Being able to renew our vows 20 years after getting married on the Queen Mary was truly special. Even more meaningful was that I was able to surprise my husband. He thought we were just being allowed into the chapel to reminisce about our wedding day for a few minutes before our dinner reservation. He was so surprised, and it was a truly special moment for both of us that I will never forget. RIP Commodore Everette, your kindness meant so much to me and Charlie."
—Gina Campbell
"My wonderful friend Everette. Thank you for several wonderful years of friendship. Ever since my first time aboard the Queen Mary you made every visit so special. I will miss our yearly dinners at Queen's View Steakhouse and our walks along Queen Mary's deck. With much love."
—Sterling Monterrosa
"My deepest condolences for the loved ones of such a stately, honorable gentleman! May his soul rest in peace. Blessings"
—Deborah Dahl
"I met Commodore last year for the first time last April. When I came aboard the QM this year, I was looking for him, but he wasn't around. I was sad because I missed his stories! I learned so much from him. He made my first stay at the QM a special one, and he was a very special man that we will miss!"
—Travis and Lisa Moody